First I want to start with saying that I finally got a teaching job which starts this fall!!! Yeah, me! I will be teaching Kindergarten! Yes, school starts when I am about 37 weeks pregnant, so hopefully I can at least get the first week in with the kids.
However, I have been trying to find work for me this summer, since I am not bringing in any money to help out the fam. Well, this is not going so well. I'm still trying, but it's really not looking to promising. :( This equals, a pretty lame summer since we will be short on money.
Since I have been home this week, and very well could be the rest of the summer, we decided it was a great time to introduce Tyler to his new "big boy" bed. We set up his bed in his new room last week. We've been spending time in there playing and hanging out before bath so that he would get familiar with the room bit. Monday night I thought would be a great night to start the real transition. Lee had a softball game, so after Tyler's bath he had to leave asap! So, it was me who got the real joy of listening to Tyler's sad cries and yells.
So, Monday night, night #1
I put him in bed after his milk and he screamed, making it to the doorway after I was already downstairs. We've got him gated into his room because he can open all doors now. I listened to him scream, cry, and yell MOM at the top of his lungs for 15 minutes and then went back up. Cuddled him for a bit and put him back to bed. Again...he made it to the doorway, screamed, cried, yelled for mom, and I listened for another 15 minutes. I went up again and he clinged to me and wouldn't let me go. I let him lay on me to fall asleep, moved him to the side and made it out safely with him sleeping peacefully. This process = 1 total hour. He slept solid until 4:40 am, which Lee went in to calm him down because Lee was getting ready to leave for work anyhow. I took over when Lee left and ended up sleeping with Tyler in bed until he woke up at 7:45! I thought night #1 went pretty good!
Tuesday afternoon nap--day #2
Put Tyler in bed and went downstairs. He of course got out of bed screaming and made it to the doorway. 15 minutes later, I went up and laid with him in bed. He fell asleep and I again safely left the room. Progress from night #1!!! He ended up taking a 2 1/2 hour nap! Yippee!!! I also needed that nap--it was great!
Tuesday night--night #2
After he drank his milk I cuddled with him and then put him in bed. Patted his back for a bit and he fell asleep!!! Wonderful! However, also very jealous that Lee never had to listen to the screaming, crying, and yelling of MOM. He slept all night and woke up this morning at 6:45! Such a big boy! It was so funny, because when he woke up he went straight to the door, opened it and stood at the gate. These actions were all done silently! I knew he was awake because I kept hearing the door swing back and hit the wall. When I got to his room, he said, "all done." This is great!
I just laid him down for his Wednesday afternoon nap and he went down so good. I hope he keeps this up!
I will add more stories and pictures later. I guess I'll try to go get something done while he's napping!